How to Create Balance with the Roles You Play

Your Roles Plan Will Help You Feel Balanced

Do you sometimes feel like you’re neglecting someone you love—or an important part of your life? Are you focusing too much on one area and not enough on another?

Creating a simple plan for the roles you play can help you find balance, reduce overwhelm, and prioritise what truly matters. This article will show you how.

This article, along with my two free offerings—my eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights and the Masterclass Open to Your Heart Power —is here to support your journey.

Each resource is designed to help you reconnect with your Higher Mind, release outdated patterns, and open to the wisdom of your heart. Whether you’re just beginning or deepening your spiritual path, you’re warmly invited to explore what calls to you.

•  Download the eBook: Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights
  A heartfelt and easy-to-read companion, filled with 13 personal stories, written to gently show how simple it can be to connect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you.
• Join the Masterclass: Open to Your Heart Power
  A gentle, guided experience to help you  build confidence in your connection with your Soul and Inner Healer.

Why Your Roles Matter 

We all play many roles—parent, partner, friend, caregiver, professional, and more. In my early 30s, I felt overwhelmed trying to juggle being a new wife, stepmum, daughter to elderly parents, and working full-time. I realised I needed a way to bring balance back into my life.

So I created a Roles Table—a simple list of the roles I played, paired with actions I could take. It helped me feel more in control and gave me a sense of relief. I could finally let go of guilt and frustration because I was doing something proactive.

Write Your Roles down

Once I wrote my roles down, I could clearly see where I’d been neglecting attention. It was obvious—and empowering. Writing it down helped me take action.

Make Self Care a Role

I turned self-care into a role. That meant scheduling healthy meals, yoga, meditation, and time in nature. I realised that when I’m well, my whole family benefits. Prioritising my energy and emotional wellbeing became essential.

Include Personal or Spiritual Growth

I also created a role for personal and spiritual growth. Reading inspiring books, meditating, and learning helped me heal and grow. Over time, this role led me to guide others through emotional healing, grief, and transformation. It helped me fulfil my life purpose.

Add Fun, Creativity, and Holidays

If you want fun and adventure in your life, you need to create it. I planned weekend adventures with my stepchildren—picnics, beach days, bush walks. My stepson once said, “If I had a dollar for every time Robbie said ‘Let’s go on an adventure!’ I’d be rich.”

Looking back, I was the rich one. 

Ask for Spiritual Support (if it Feels Right)

For me, asking for help from my Angels and Guides felt natural. I formed a Spiritual Support Group and received guidance through meditation.

One of my guides, White Cloud, evolved with me over time—from a single feather to a chief with many. It was a beautiful affirmation of growth.

Create Your Own Roles Table

Here’s a simplified version of my original Roes Table. Feel free to create your own and adapt it to your life.

Plan Ahead with Your Roles in Mind

I created a role planner. It helped me stay focused and balanced when scheduling my week and setting goals for the year. 

Being conscious of my roles, and diligent about organising times that suit me in my diary, helped me find time for self-care and balance.

It didn’t matter if people needed to wait until I was ready, healthy boundaries are important, as long as they knew there was a plan in place and organised.

It was a ‘God Send’ when I was working full time, had a family to feed, organise and create fun for, elderly parents and extended family and friends to make time for, nourish my creative side, and take responsibility for our future investments – helped me feel like I had some balance – especially prioritising self-care.

I believe that having written my roles to help manage my time, and priortise what was important to me back then shaped my life.  It helped me fulfil my higher purpose, and for that I am infinitely grateful.

I encourage you to give it a go.

Listen to Your Body Wisdom

Now I invite you to begin your own journey, guided by your body’s wisdom and the quiet voice of your Soul. 

If you feel anger, fear, or judgment, notice the thoughts behind them. These thoughts may be holding you back.

Every inspirational leader began by listening to their intuition. You can activate this within you—it’s easy and life-changing.

The Open to Your Heart Power Masterclass will help you transform those thoughts and move forward with what you love.

What you’ll experience in the Masterclass

You’ll be gently guided to:

• Co-create your life with your Soul—your best friend
• Listen to your Soul’s wisdom and ask investigative questions
• Release emotions that hold you back
• Let go of painful thoughts with a simple daily practice
• Reframe your beliefs to feel supported
• Connect with your Inner Healer and care for your body
• Open to a heart journey of inner harmony and power

You’ll become an inspiration to others—just by being you.

Have a pen and notebook ready—you’ll be channeling your Soul and Inner Healer. Writing down your answers helps you revisit them later with fresh eyes and deeper insight.

And remember… the higher dimensions have a wonderful sense of humour. Have fun with it!

Gentle Reminder

If you haven’t yet downloaded my free eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights, it’s a heartfelt companion filled with 13 personal stories to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you.

As you reflect on self-care, and strengthening your heart power, remember that your Soul is always ready to guide you forward. The Masterclass and eBook are here to support your journey.

Hugest Heart, 
Robyn
Intuitive writer, teacher and channeler