Values inspire you by saying “you did good!”
How do you feel when you are inspired to take care of what is important to you? Is there a change in your life you would love to make and need a little help with? It may be time to revisit (or create) your ‘feel good’ personal values list.
I use my values list as my “hey, you did good!” list. Even if it’s just a little bit good, it’s good! So go easy on yourself and give yourself heaps of praise for the ‘little bit good moments’ in your world.
This article will show you how.
Reflection Point:
Are you acknowledging all the good things you do for yourself, and for others? What is it you are most proud of today?
Only have values which make you feel good
Values are an opportunity to remind yourself how beautiful, special, kind and precious you truly are. What ever you focus your attention on and the thoughts you are thinking determines how you feel. The more you recognise your inner light, the better you will feel.
Make your values easy to achieve
What I discovered, is I need to be kind to myself by making my values easy to achieve. Otherwise I’m likely to throw it all in the too hard basket.
Give yourself permission to be human and flexible
It’s so important to be kind to you! If we are rigid in the way we run our lives, our thoughts is our ego speaking and not our higher selves. We create pain in one way or another. The moment we make a conscious decision to be flexible, accepting and kind to ourselves and others, life flows so much easier. So go easy on yourself, and be flexible.
Create your own – it’s easy, only 3 steps
My feel good values are at the end of this article. Check them out, feel free to use them if you wish, otherwise the list below is the generic list of values in the hope you will be inspired to create yours.
- Circle, say 5 or so from the Values List below which seem to stand out at you.
- Place them in order of priority, the most important one at the top of your list.
- Beside, write how you can easily achieve each value.
Values List – shine your inner light
Acceptance |
Achievement |
Authenticity |
Adventure |
Authority |
Balance |
Beauty |
Boldness |
Compassion |
Challenge |
Citizenship |
Community |
Competency |
Contribution |
Creativity |
Curiosity |
Determination |
Excellence |
Fairness |
Faith |
Fame |
Freedom |
Friendships |
Fun |
Gentleness |
Gratitude |
Growth |
Happiness |
Harmony |
Health |
Healing |
Honesty |
Humour |
Influence |
Inner Harmony |
Intelligence |
Intimacy |
Investment |
Justice |
Kindness |
Knowledge |
Leadership |
Learning |
Love |
Loyalty |
Meaningful Work |
Openness |
Optimism |
Passion |
Peace |
Pleasure |
Poise |
Popularity |
Recognition |
Religion |
Reputation |
Respect |
Responsibility |
Security |
Spirituality |
Stability |
Success |
Status |
Trustworthiness |
Vitality |
Warmth |
Wealth |
Wisdom |
Once it’s done, it’s done!
I haven’t changed mine for 30 years. The family members have grown and new ones have arrived, but my values are still the same.
My experience
I keep mine printed out in a plastic leaf folder with all my ‘Universe To Do’ lists, tables and letters to my future me I write about in my articles. It works really well.
My value’s list helps me most when I doubt myself and feel as if I am struggling with some issues in my life, referring to my list always helps me give myself a pat on the back. Because I am reassured, that I do my best to love and be kind to others, and am reminded to be sure to love and be kind to me.
Reflection Point: Remember to pat yourself on the back for the kind moments in your life, especially kindness to you. It’s important to be kind to yourself.
Robyn’s Values List as a guide
Feel free to use what I have recorded if it resonates with you.
Robyn’s Values | |
Health/Flexibility and Vitality | Anytime I eat fresh colourful food, refill my glass with water, meditate, do a few yoga moves and play in the ocean. |
Love/Warmth/Intimacy | When I feel harmony within, I best love those around me. |
Happiness | Anytime I laugh, hug and play. |
Passion/Creativity | Anytime I stop – and appreciate the beauty around me, anytime I plan a piece of art, anytime I am in my garden. |
Intelligence/Spirituality | Anytime I meditate. Anytime I read a book which inspires me to grow. |
Adventure/Fun | Anytime I plan fun for me and my family. |
Contribution/Healings | When I am kind to myself, I am my best me to help, love and inspire others. |
Listen to your body wisdom
If you sense yourself feeling anger, rage, fear or have a judgement or belief of what is right and wrong – recognise you have thoughts that are adding fuel to holding you back.
Every inspirational leader began their journey by listening to their intuition. You can activate this within you too – it’s easy and life changing.
The ‘Open to your Heart Power’ masterclass video will help you with transforming those thoughts each time you are triggered, so you can move forward with what you love to do.
My Guides explain:
“We in the higher planes see the changes that are taking place, we can see how each and every one of you is making a difference by shining your light.”
How to open to your heart power
If my words resonate with you, or feel good to you, the below ‘Open to your Heart Power’ Masterclass video may just be your perfect next most important step.
What you will experience…
You will be gently guided in how to:
- Co-create your life with your best friend – your Soul, to see your life through the lens of a higher perspective.
- Confidently ‘listen’ to the words of your Soul, have conversations, asking investigative questions – to ‘determine’ the highest way forward for you in every situation you face.
- Enlist the support of your Soul to release any emotions holding you back.
- Let your annoying or painful thoughts go with an easy practice you can do at any time during your day.
- Reframe your belief system so you feel supported by your thoughts rather than held down.
- Listen to the inner healer within you, so you are inspired to care for your body and listen to its needs.
- How to open to the most incredible heart journey of inner harmony, inner power, and, in doing so, you become… an inspiration to those around you in living a heart powered way of being – just by being you.
You can experience ‘Open to your Heart Power’ in your own time
Make sure you have a pen and notebook ready, because you will be channeling your Soul and your Inner Healer and it’s more effective if you write the answers down.
It’s surprising when you re-visit what you have written at a later time, because you experience the answers with fresh eyes, and a different frame of mind.
Have fun with it, I find the higher dimensions have a great sense of humour.
Hugest love,
Robyn
Intuitive teacher and channeler