Values inspire you by saying “You did good!”
How do you feel when you take care of what truly matters to you? Is there a change you’d love to make in your life but need a little help getting started? It might be time to revisit—or create—your personal “feel good” values list.
I use my values list as a gentle reminder: “Hey, you did good!” Even if it’s just a little bit good, it’s still good. So go easy on yourself and celebrate those small, meaningful moments. This article will show you how.
It’s my intention to inspire you with the easiest possible way to create the perfect value’s list for you – when you choose them, they support you in finding your joy for the rest of your life.
This article, along with my two free offerings—my eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights and the Masterclass Open to Your Heart Power —is here to support your journey.
Each resource is designed to help you reconnect with your Higher Mind, release outdated patterns, and open to the wisdom of your heart. Whether you’re just beginning or deepening your spiritual path, you’re warmly invited to explore what calls to you.
- Download the eBook: Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights
A heartfelt and easy-to-read companion, filled with 13 personal stories, written to gently show how simple it can be to connect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you. - Join the Masterclass: Open to Your Heart Power
A gentle, guided experience to help you build confidence in your connection with your Soul and Inner Healer.
Reflection Point:
Are you acknowledging all the good things you do for yourself, and for others? What is it you are most proud of today?
Only Have Values That Make you Feel Good
Your values are a beautiful opportunity to remind yourself how kind, special, and precious you truly are. What you focus on—and the thoughts you think—shape how you feel. The more you recognise your inner light, the brighter you’ll shine.
Make Your Values Easy To Achieve
I’ve learned that kindness to self includes making your values achievable. If they’re too hard or rigid, they end up in the “too hard” basket. Keep it simple and gentle.
Give Yourself Permission to Be Human and Flexible
Being kind to yourself means allowing flexibility. When we’re rigid, it’s often our ego speaking—not our Higher Self. That rigidity creates pain. But when we consciously choose acceptance and kindness, life flows more easily. So be gentle with yourself and others.
Create Your Own Values List in 3 Easy Steps
At the end of this article, I’ve shared my personal values list. Feel free to use it if it resonates with you. Otherwise, here’s a simple way to create your own:
- Circle 5 or so values from the list below that stand out to you.
- Place them in order of priority, with the most important at the top.
- Beside each one, write how you can easily live that value.
Values List – Shine Your Inner Light
Acceptance |
Achievement |
Authenticity |
Adventure |
Authority |
Balance |
Beauty |
Boldness |
Compassion |
Challenge |
Citizenship |
Community |
Competency |
Contribution |
Creativity |
Curiosity |
Determination |
Excellence |
Fairness |
Faith |
Fame |
Freedom |
Friendships |
Fun |
Gentleness |
Gratitude |
Growth |
Happiness |
Harmony |
Health |
Healing |
Honesty |
Humour |
Influence |
Inner Harmony |
Intelligence |
Intimacy |
Investment |
Justice |
Kindness |
Knowledge |
Leadership |
Learning |
Love |
Loyalty |
Meaningful Work |
Openness |
Optimism |
Passion |
Peace |
Pleasure |
Poise |
Popularity |
Recognition |
Religion |
Reputation |
Respect |
Responsibility |
Security |
Spirituality |
Stability |
Success |
Status |
Trustworthiness |
Vitality |
Warmth |
Wealth |
Wisdom |
Once it’s done, it’s done!
I haven’t changed mine for 30 years. Life evolves—family members grow and new ones arrive—but my values remain the same.
My Experience
I keep my values printed in a plastic folder alongside my “Universe To Do” lists, tables, and letters to my future self. It’s a system that works beautifully.
My values list helps me most when I’m doubting myself or facing challenges. It reminds me that I do my best to love and be kind to others—and to myself.
Robyn’s Values List as a guide
Feel free to use what I have recorded if it resonates with you.
Robyn’s Values | |
Health/Flexibility and Vitality | Anytime I eat fresh colourful food, refill my glass with water, meditate, do a few yoga moves and play in the ocean. |
Love/Warmth/Intimacy | When I feel harmony within, I best love those around me. |
Happiness | Anytime I laugh, hug and play. |
Passion/Creativity | Anytime I stop – and appreciate the beauty around me, anytime I plan a piece of art, anytime I am in my garden. |
Intelligence/Spirituality | Anytime I meditate. Anytime I read a book that inspires me to grow. |
Adventure/Fun | Anytime I plan fun for me and my family. |
Contribution/Healings | When I am kind to myself, I am my best me to help, love and inspire others. |
Listen to Your Body Wisdom
Now I invite you to begin your own journey, guided by your body’s wisdom and the quiet voice of your Soul.
If you feel anger, fear, or judgment, notice the thoughts behind them. These thoughts may be holding you back.
Every inspirational leader began by listening to their intuition. You can activate this within you—it’s easy and life-changing.
The Open to Your Heart Power Masterclass will help you transform those thoughts and move forward with what you love.
What you’ll experience in the Masterclass
You’ll be gently guided to:
- Co-create your life with your Soul—your best friend
- Listen to your Soul’s wisdom and ask investigative questions
- Release emotions that hold you back
- Let go of painful thoughts with a simple daily practice
- Reframe your beliefs to feel supported
- Connect with your Inner Healer and care for your body
- Open to a heart journey of inner harmony and power
You’ll become an inspiration to others—just by being you.
Have a pen and notebook ready—you’ll be channeling your Soul and Inner Healer. Writing down your answers helps you revisit them later with fresh eyes and deeper insight.
And remember… the higher dimensions have a wonderful sense of humour. Have fun with it!
Gentle Reminder
If you haven’t yet downloaded my free eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights, it’s a heartfelt companion filled with 13 personal stories to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you.
As you reflect on creating your values, remember that your Soul is always ready to guide you forward. The Masterclass and eBook are here to support your journey.
Hugest Heart,
Robyn
Intuitive writer, teacher and channeler
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