7 Steps to Allow Love in Your Life

Open Yourself Up for More Love

Think of a time you felt love for a child or a pet. How did that feel?
Notice how they received your love—freely, without expecting anything in return.

Now ask yourself:
“Do I look for strings to be attached when someone offers me love?”

If so, this is your moment to open up and allow more love into your life.
This article will show you how.

This article, along with my two free offerings—my eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights and the Masterclass Open to Your Heart Power —is here to support your journey.

Each resource is designed to help you reconnect with your Higher Mind, release outdated patterns, and open to the wisdom of your heart. Whether you’re just beginning or deepening your spiritual path, you’re warmly invited to explore what calls to you.

•  Download the eBook: Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights
  A heartfelt and easy-to-read collection, filled with 13 personal stories, written to gently show how simple it can be to connect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you.
• Join the Masterclass: Open to Your Heart Power
  A gentle, guided experience to help you build confidence in your connection with your Soul and Inner Healer.

1.  Remember How It Feels To Be Loved

When we recall moments of love from the past, we open ourselves to receive more.
According to the Universal Law of Attraction, what we focus on expands. 

My Experience:

Milkshake the cat came into our lives when I was unwell. I didn’t want any animals to care for, but my stepdaughter brought him home.

He wasn’t allowed in the bedroom, but he sat at the door, watching me. Eventually, I invited him in. He curled around my feet the entire time I was sick. I felt so comforted and loved. From that moment on, Milkshake was spoiled—and so was I. We both manifested more love.

2.  Uplift Your Thoughts

Your thoughts shape the size of the funnel through which love flows.
If your thoughts feel heavy or fearful, they may be blocking love.

My Experience:

I once thought, “I’m not a very good businesswoman.” That didn’t align with my intention to serve others with confidence and love. Using the Clockface Technique, I shifted that thought—and now I focus only on the love I bring.

3.  Update Your Beliefs

Beliefs are simply thoughts you keep thinking.
That means they’re not fixed—they can be changed.

Steps to Transform Your Belief:

1. Check out the Clockface Technique, to determine the belief you’d rather have.
2. Write it on small pieces of paper and place them where you’ll see them often.
3. Repeat the new belief regularly.

   Affirm: I open myself up to allow beliefs that serve me in a loving way.

My Experience:

When I feel my energy dip, I ask my Higher Self: “What’s going on here?”
Sometimes the answer is simple: “You need a nap.” 😊

4.  People Give Love in the Way They Like To Receive Love

Understanding this changed everything for me.
It helped me stop misinterpreting others’ actions and start appreciating their unique ways of loving.

My Experience:

My husband Shane’s family is very different from mine. In my family, we anticipated each other’s needs—it was our way of showing love. But Shane prefers space and clear boundaries. I’ve learned to honour that. Now, when he says, “Stop anticipating!” I smile. It’s become a loving joke between us.

5.  Consciously Allow Love

The first time I consciously allowed love, I dedicated a day to it.
I imagined sending love to everyone I encountered—and the results were magical.

My Experience:

That day, I received unexpected smiles, two takeaway coffees from clients, and people wandering to my desk saying, “I don’t know why I’m here!”
I’d say, “That’s because I sent love to you this morning.”
It was always received with a smile.

Affirm: I consciously allow love to flow to and through me.

6.  Love people for who they are, not who you want them to be

Trying to change others creates resistance.
Giving people permission to be themselves softens your energy—and theirs.

My Experience:

When Shane was angry, I used to resist it. One day, I said, “Go for it, hon—you can get angry!”
His anger dissolved instantly.
Giving him permission to feel what he felt changed everything.

7.  Forgive People

Forgiveness isn’t about condoning bad behaviour—it’s about freeing your heart.
It releases the emotional cords that weigh you down.

If you’re carrying pain from the past, you may need support to forgive.
My program Path to Heart Based Power can help guide you through this process.

Affirm: I forgive to free my heart and allow more love in.

Listen to Your Body Wisdom

Now I invite you to begin your own journey, guided by your body’s wisdom and the quiet voice of your Soul. 

If you feel anger, fear, or judgment, notice the thoughts behind them. These thoughts may be holding you back.

Every inspirational leader began by listening to their intuition. You can activate this within you—it’s easy and life-changing.

The Open to Your Heart Power Masterclass will help you transform those thoughts and move forward with what you love.

What you’ll experience in the Masterclass

You’ll be gently guided to:

• Co-create your life with your Soul—your best friend
• Listen to your Soul’s wisdom and ask investigative questions
• Release emotions that hold you back
• Let go of painful thoughts with a simple daily practice
• Reframe your beliefs to feel supported
• Connect with your Inner Healer and care for your body
• Open to a heart journey of inner harmony and power

You’ll become an inspiration to others—just by being you.

Have a pen and notebook ready—you’ll be channeling your Soul and Inner Healer. Writing down your answers helps you revisit them later with fresh eyes and deeper insight.

And remember… the higher dimensions have a wonderful sense of humour. Have fun with it!

Gentle Reminder

If you haven’t yet downloaded my free eBook Living from the Higher Mind – Soulful Insights, it’s a heartfelt collection filled with 13 personal stories to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom and awaken the healing power within you.

As you reflect on how to allow more love in your life, remember that your Soul is always ready to guide you forward. The Masterclass and eBook are here to support your journey.

Hugest Heart, 

Robyn
Intuitive writer, teacher and channeler