Choose peace no matter how another is behaving!

Do you ever feel as if your emotions could be handled better?  Do you have a tendency towards irritation or even anger at another’s behaviour?  Is there someone in your life who triggers strong emotions within you?

Reflection Point:   It is the inner work which you do which brings back your power, and creates the feeling of calm inside.  Blame has no value in your journey of your evolution.  Forgiveness is priority.  Forgiveness of yourself and forgiveness of others.


Bring back your power

To bring back your power, and feel calm inside, it is you who needs to make a change to evolve. 

When I first discovered this understanding, I set about researching what change I must create within me, in the hope I would learn how!  I learnt the following process from a book called Spiritual Growth by Sanaya Roman.   

This understanding changed my life, and I hope to help you too.  This article will show you how.

Love people for who they are and not who you want them to be.

The moments I find myself irritated or upset by another, it helps knowing that I must love people for who they are and not who I want them to be.  Once we are hurt, we can become protective and closed, wanting to be sure we are not going to be hurt again.  That doesn’t work.

Now is the time to ask the higher part of you, your Higher Self…

 How am I contributing to this turbulence?

 And after reflecting on the answer, ask…

How can I change?

As soon as I stop making the other person wrong, and allow guidance with my Higher Self, I am able to become more loving and accepting.   When another person is triggering strong emotions within me, they actually need my love, not me withholding it.

If you are new to the concept of contacting your own Higher Self or higher intuitive self, you will find the below described online course which is free called ‘Activate your Intuition’ a wonderful experience and the perfect self care and loving experience for any journey of growth ahead for you.


View the situation with an elevated level

When we observe others with an understanding that they are acting or responding from a place of emotional pain, or a limited perspective, we are more easily able to put aside judgments of their actions and instead consciously view the situation from an elevated level. 

From this elevated perspective we are able to give our love and understanding.  We can more easily forgive – and that creates change.

That one works! 

Reflection Point:   Imagine a future probable event where your emotions are likely to trigger a painful or negative feeling inside.  You are going to plan ahead on how to put this wisdom into practice. 

You have the power to change situations

Providing you are open to understand how you contribute to the turbulance, and make the change you need to evolve, your situations will change.   Your higher self will help by guiding you to what that change is, to love and look after you.  After all, your happiness is the greatest gift you can give to yourself and others.

How you are… affects others! 

Affirm:  I intend the outcome to unfold for the highest good of everyone involved.

Activate your Intuition 

Every inspirational leader began their journey by activating their intuition and listening to their very own high intuitive selves.

You can activate your intuition too – it’s easy and life changing. You can activate your intuition for free in the online course called ‘Activate your Intuition’ on this website.

In ‘Activate your Intuition’ you will discover how intuitive writing is a simple practice and allows you to receive guidance and answers to your questions from a higher perspective. You will also:-

  • Blend with your inner child – to allow more fun in your life,
  • Ignite your voice – to inspire you to express yourself in a loving way,
  • Ignite your body – to listen to its wisdom and give it the support and self care it needs,
  • Ignite your heart – to learn how to soothe your emotions and discover how to place love in the way you respond to challenging conversations and situations,
  • Ignite your peace – so you step out into the world each day in a vibration which allows more good things into your life,
  • Ignite your curiosity – to discover the things you may wish to investigate in the future which makes your heart sing,
  • Ignite your creativity – to inspire you to allow those creative juices to flow and give yourself the gift of time to put into place more of what makes your heart sing into your life.

This is the greatest act of love to yourself and when you do, the magic begins.

Every inspirational leader began…
by activating their intuition.

Hi, I’m Robyn,

I love helping create confidence in those seeking personal spiritual connections.

If this is you, the free online course ‘Activate your Intuition’ is your very first step, and it’s easy to do. 

With an active connection to your higher intuitive self, you will experience clarity, more harmony in your life, and radiate heart power with each new step you take.

The magic begins.

It is my intention through all aspects of my work to make an empowering difference in people’s lives. I hope to have helped you too.

I send you all my love, 

Transformation Teacher|Quantum Hypnotherapist

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