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Open yourself up for more love

Think of a time you gave love to a child, or a pet in the past.  How did that feel?  Notice how they received your love without expecting to give anything back in return.  

Are you looking for strings to be attached when someone offers you love in some way?

If so, now is the time to open up and allow yourself to receive more love!

This article will show you how.  

Reflection Point:    Just for a moment, close your eyes and imagine you are standing under a waterfall of love.

Abundances of sparkling love… breathe it in…. soak it up… take your time to allow this love to completely fill every cell of your being.  Affirm loudly:  I ALLOW LOVE IN MY LIFE!

1.  Remember How It Feels To Be Loved

When we recall the moments we felt loved in the past, we open ourselves up for more.  We manifest that which we think about, in accordance with the Universal Law of Attraction.  

It is wise to re-remember the times which brought you the most joy and felt love. 

My step daughter Jaala had a cat called Milkshake. I was never really fond of cats, but Milkshake soon won my heart.  I was ill and bedridden for a week when Milkshake first came into our lives.  He knew he wasn’t allowed in the bedroom, so he sat at the doorway looking at me.  

In the end I gave up that rule and beckoned Milkshake to come in.  The whole time I was sick, his body was curled around my feet.   I felt so much comfort and love from him.  From that moment on Milkshake received many special treats… and was allowed to sleep on my bed.

Milkshake manifested more love… and so had I.

Reflection Point:  Think back to a moment in time, when you remember feeling loved. 

2.  Uplift Your Thoughts

Our thoughts play an important role in the size of the funnel we have to allow love into our lives.  Are your thoughts making you feel uncomfortable or fearful in some way?  If so, these are the ones which need addressing.

It is so helpful when you are equipped with techniques to help change those repetitive negative thoughts.  The solution is at hand in by Blog Article How to uplift your thoughts to feel better.

3.  Update Your Beliefs

Are your current beliefs nurturing you?  If not, it would be wise to revisit these beliefs and replace them with ones which do.

Beliefs are really thoughts which you keep thinking.  Understanding this is helpful, because they don’t seem quite so rigid after all.  

Reflection Point:   Think of one belief you have which doesn’t make you feel good.

  1. Create a replacement belief which feels good to you.
  2. Write your new belief on many pieces of paper to display where you see it often.
  3. Repeat the new belief to yourself regularly.

A further solution:  

If you find you are struggling with deeply held beliefs you wish to change, don’t worry. There is help in the Program “Higher Communications”.  You will experience Meditations and Techniques to release these old beliefs holding you back and replace them with new ones which nurture and support you.  

4.  People Give Love in the Way They Like To Receive Love

When I learnt that others give love in the way they like to receive love, it created a shift within me.  It helped me understand people who I thought were being quite cold, when in fact they simply gave love in a different way than me.  This is especially useful when you have a partner whose family is completely different to your own.

I now consciously observe and acknowledge the different ways people love.  

Reflection Point:   Recognise the way different people love you.  

When you notice the little things people do, just as I did, you may discover that you feel more loved than ever.

5.  Consciously Allow Love

The first day I learnt that I could consciously allow more love into my life, I decided to dedicate that particular day to giving it a go.  I set about consciously allowing myself to receive.  

I imagined myself sending love to every person I met, and every person I spoke to that day (which became my daily practice).  The outcome was fascinating.  

I was working for a very large firm as a receptionist at the time.  On that very first day, I received the most beautiful smiles, and three different clients came in with a take away coffee for me in their hand!  It was amazing!  That had never happened before!  Over time, I discovered people would turn up at my desk not knowing why they were standing there!

I’m sure they were following my trail of love.  

Simply by energetically sending love,  you open yourself up to allow for more!

6.  Love people for who they are, not who you want        them to be

The ego might feel a bit better casting blame on another, but the outcome never has any value.  The only way forward is to give people permission to be who they are, foibles and all!

You may find by holding resistance in the form of angst or resentment you are amplifying that very behaviour in them.

I discovered this lesson when my husband Shane (who has a tendency to overreact), was experiencing something which had made him angry.  He looked at me and said “Babe I know you don’t want me to be angry!” as he was ready to burst, when I replied with “Go for it hon, you can get angry!” at that point his anger completely dissolved!

It seems that when he feels I don’t want him angry it’s harder for him to resist the anger, but if I give him permission to be angry it miraculously disappears!   

I wish I had learnt this lesson thirty years ago☺.

Anger is an important emotion for us to have, so please receive this personal experience as an example of how we can somehow feed a negative reaction in another without realising it.


Loving people for who they are, and not who you want them to be helps resolves that.

Reflection Point:    Is there someone in your family you tend to have challenges with?  

If so, mentally give them permission to be who they are.  Just imagine telling their soul, “I give you permission to be whoever you are” and “I love you for who you are”… and observe the outcome.

You may choose to keep a physical distance from them, that’s okay.  You don’t need to be with them to send them love.

7.  Forgive People

Carrying around a painful cord of attachment from issues of the past is agonising and draining.

When you create forgiveness, you are not condoning a person’s bad behaviour.  You are releasing this cord which frees your heart and this helps heal your emotional body.

It truly is the most miraculous discovery once you know how.

If you have a memory or a series of memories which carry a heavy burden for you, you may need help to forgive.  My program 'Higher Communications' will show you how.


8. Visual Guided Meditations

In Quantum Hypnotherapy, through my clients quantum selves, we are given consistent advice to meditate as a way to help overcome challenges.   

It is for this reason that I invite you to experience the visual guided meditations in the program Higher Communications.  

The first five meditations in the Module Align which re available on this web site are free.

Through these first five meditations, you will peel away burdens you have been carrying and gain confidence in reaching your higher self.  Your higher self will help guide you in seeking the wisest words, the perfect timing, and the courage to speak or take the best course of action to your challenges. 

Are you new to meditation?  Higher Communications is a very comfortable, soft introduction to the meditation process .  There is a flow and a building of self-awareness as you progress through each of the segments.  

Created in a visual way, perfectly serving the hard of hearing, those who find it difficult to visualise, and people who are new to meditation.

Meditation allows you to quieten your mind and shift thoughts to create better feelings, heal your heart, release heavy emotional burdens, create forgiveness, find peace, communicate with your higher self and the non-physical help you have around you.  It helps you feel balanced, and have an improved view of the world.


Feeling at harmony within and creating the feeling of love by the thoughts you choose, magnitises you to the love you truly deserve. Meditation can help you with the self love, divine guidance, forgiveness and healing of your beautiful heart.

 The first five visual guided meditations are my gift to you.

It is my intention to help make a difference in peoples lives.  I hope to have helped you too.

Love, Robyn

Quantum Hypnotherapist, Author and Co-founder of Higher Communications

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